Only a week left to go to get everything sorted. The presents organised, the food ordered, the house set for visitors (if we’re allowed them). So why all the fuss? Why do we suddenly feel the need to get everything ready for the big day? Why is it so important? What I find so interesting this year is that, even when we have spent much more time at home than usual, we seem more excited about the prospect of getting home for Christmas. It made me wonder, what it is about Christmas that draws us home?
My architectural leaning is that there maybe comfort in knowing that our homes offer SHELTER from the storm. As the darkness of winter looms, maybe we are naturally drawn to the warmth of the fire and protection from the elements. The safety of being able to look out from your own space is very powerful, particularly at the moment. Or maybe, as my heart suggests, perhaps it is more than that. Maybe it is knowing that you have friends and family to share space with, to share your hopes and dreams.
Sharing Stories
Our Scandinavian counterparts are keen on the concept of “Hygge” which embraces the thought of cosiness and contentment through simple things. A philosophy that helps them through many a dark night and one we can all relate to. The dark nights give us the chance to harbour down with our families and reflect. Reflect on a tough year and to share stories. Sharing stories around a fire or a Christmas tree seems to give them new meaning, more power. Maybe putting a physical marker on a moment creates memory, gives them resonance.
Ironically it is the temporary and impermanent nature of Christmas that I find the most frustrating. The good old festive glow is sadly fleeting. The Christmas tree, once so important, is cast asunder, the carefully wrapped presents lost in seconds. Maybe we should be more precious about these things, about our time together. Maybe we should take time to understand why they matter so much and recognise the space Christmas creates for our souls.
Changing Spaces
What you will notice over the festive period is that your house is quickly turned upside down. The dining room becomes the playroom, the study someone’s bedrooms, whilst the garage plays host to a turkey. Spaces seem to be adapted to accommodate need. Space is made available to a Christmas Tree, a mother-in-law* and a whole menagerie of closely-related animals that have also decided to stay. Kids turn sofas into grottos whilst Mums and Dads find shelter in the rugby or “Back to the Future”.
Christmas gives us the chance to reflect, to see and shape space differently. The question is, what space do you need? When you’ve got your feet up by the log fire, in the new space you have created, maybe there is something you like, that you might want to keep. Or maybe you notice there is another space that isn’t doing as much as for you as it might?
What matters most about the architecture of Christmas, is not the space you create, but the people you accommodate. The more the merrier (covid restrictions pending). If we can make time and space for people at Christmas perhaps there is hope for us and our houses when working from home or during the next lockdown.
Working from Home
Whatever your plans, make sure you make the most of your space this Christmas. Put your feet up and think differently. Rather than letting lifestyle magazines dictate how you use a space why not take a moment to think about how your space can adapt to your lifestyle? Now there is no turkey in the garage, what else could it be used for (the mother-in-law?). Rather than take the decorations down, why not keep them up, keep your spirits up. Rather than say goodbye at the end of the season, why not give more time and space to each other throughout the year. One thing is for certain, it is important that we all make room for living in 2022!
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MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR
Whilst I’ll be home for Christmas, four walls and a roof may be out of reach for many. In the interest of goodwill and hygge and in the support of those that aren’t looking forward to Christmas you can DONATE to SHELTER by clicking on the link.
* My mother-in-law is really quite nice and I certainly wouldn’t think to put her in the garage.




